Nothing at all is personal anymore. Nothing can just be between two people. Whether it be a friendship, a relationship, a romance...
I find that people hide behind technology.
I prefer reality to be completely honest.
Don't get me wrong... the whole texting/communication/cyberly connected aspect is fine, but that's not communication.
A relationship of any kind is based on communication.
You can't communicate how you feel over text, You just can't.
Technology is a crutch to us all. I don't think you should need a cellular device or a computer to tell another person how you feel. The challenge is facing it all, and saying what you need to say not knowing the response ahead you.
I prefer a relationship or a friendship in person.
Someone asked me today what I really want right now. This made me think long and hard...
So after a day of musical theatre and a night of chick flicks, this is what I came up with...
For myself, I don't think a serious relationship is my deal right now. I have so much time to be serious.
The point is that an ideal relationship of any kind for me is just someone I can laugh with, and smile with, and joke with... This is the time for friendships and closeness.
Someone who I understand, and someone who understands me. Someone who enjoys my presence as much as I enjoy theirs. Someone special.
“Love is when two people know everything about each other and are still friends."
I think in a way, everyone wants this. I believe things just simply get in the way. People are put in our lives for certain reasons. Treasure them.
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